YOU DON’T HAVE TO BE HIT FOR IT TO BE ABUSE: SUPREME COURT MAKES LANDMARK RULING

In a major decision (Ahluwalia v Ahluwalia, 2026 SCC 16) that could change family law in Canada, the Supreme Court of Canada has officially recognized a new legal wrong called Intimate Partner Violence. 

What does that mean in simple terms?

The Court is saying that abuse in a relationship is not only physical. A person can also suffer abuse through:

• Constant controlling behaviour

• Emotional manipulation

• Isolation from friends and family

• Threats and intimidation

• Financial control

• Monitoring or controlling daily life

This type of behaviour is often called coercive control — when one partner slowly takes away the other person’s independence, confidence, and freedom.

For many survivors, this is a huge step forward.

Before now, the law mainly focused on physical violence or separate incidents of abuse. But the Supreme Court recognized that abuse could happen over time through patterns of control that deeply affect a person’s dignity, mental health, and ability to make their own choices.

The Court made it clear: You do not have to be physically assaulted for the law to recognize that you were abused.

This landmark ruling may affect:

• Divorce and separation cases

• Parenting and custody disputes

• Claims for compensation after abusive relationships

• Family law proceedings involving coercive control

At Adept Family Lawyers, we understand that leaving or dealing with an abusive relationship can feel overwhelming and frightening. You are not alone, and help is available.

If you are experiencing controlling or abusive behaviour in your relationship, contact Adept Family Lawyers today for a free confidential consultation. Our compassionate team is here to protect your rights and help you move forward safely and confidently.